Cousins????

Dear LOL,

I have a question if my girlfriend starts to act funny with me every time her female cousin comes around I mean to the point that she avoids my touch and doesn't wanna kiss me or she turns to see if she is in the room or watching her. Whenever she is around it seems like she pays more attention to her than me. She acts like we are friends and not girlfriend and girlfriend. Should I think something is going on or should I just let to go.

WeirdedOut

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Dear WeirdedOut,

Im thinking *Raises Eyebrow* Ya girlfriend's behavior is kinda suspicious. The question i have for you is... Where did this "cousin" come from. Is she at any other family functions? ALRIGHT! Im just going to come out and say it, GIRL THIS MIGHT NOT BE HER COUSIN AND THEY BOTH MIGHT BE PLAYING YOU. Sometimes women settle for being the other woman, all the way down to "Just tell her I am your cousin and I'm just gonna come over" and in addition to playing that role and making her feel comfortable she could be telling her y'all aren't together "like that" you know.. or maybe you dont know... Those are just a few BS lines women tell "the other COMPLIANT woman"

My advice is always simple:
Talk less, Listen more and be observant.

Keep me posted!

SMOOCHEZ!!!

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