In a minute i'm not going to care!

Come on Nick! Do you really wanna keep playing us like that? Mariah is as big as a house and you just DO NOT want to say, "WE ARE PREGNANT!"

But he keeps making comments like this:

"We're gonna do it like George Foreman," he said this morning on his radio show, 'Rollin.' "We're gonna name all of our kids Mariah no matter if they're boys or girls. Mariah No. 1, Boy Mariah, Man Mariah, Tall Mariah. It's gonna be a house full of people named Mariah."
Then he goes on his twitter and says this:

"If & when my wife is ready to make ANY announcements about private matters she will do it personally. Thanks for being respectful," Cannon tweeted yesterday.

That's my ONE minute! I don't care anymore!

Are Will and Jada putting daughter Willow's career before her education?



Photo Courtesy of  Rap-up

 Will and Jada's Son Willow seems to be falling behind inher school work and is at the level she should be with her peers.

The 10-year-old told The Daily Record: "I never really get to go to school because I am always on tour, or with my father.

"There is a tutor most of the time, but usually I am working so I never get to do the lessons. The worst thing about maths is all the kids are ahead of me because they go to school."

Willow also talked about working with her dad when she was 4 years old.

She explained: "I was four years old when I recorded a song with daddy and only said a couple of words, and I thought, 'This is cool.' It wasn't supposed to be in the song but he wrote me something at the last minute.

"I would go with my mum on her tour and look at her and love what she did. I thought, 'Maybe I should do that.' So I did. I'm going to make songs to inspire people."

The Swagger Jackers Birthday Pics!

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Okay!Thats enough! lol

Billboard Honors Lady Gaga With this Year's Top Awards! Where's Nicki?

Lady Gaga takes the top spot for Billboard Honors Top New Artist. Okay I took an early shot at Nicki Minaj.... You have to be onthe billboard 40 charts for at least 42 weeks to be considered... But we will be watching lol #teamlilkim

Happy Belated 12th Birthday Reginae Carter

Lil Wayne & Ex wife LaToya, Nivea(Wayne's other baby momma), Diggy Simmons and a host of other family and friends joined together to celebrate Reginae's 12th birthday bash!!!



So nice to see the mother's get along with the kids




She DEFINATELY looks like her mom



Photo's Courtesy of  Joi Pearson & Vanessa Denis

I think it is wonderful that all Wayne's baby mommas get along. I follow them all on twitter and Reginae is always hanging out with Nivea...Now I dont see too much from Laura London or the New New lol ... But Nivea seems real cool. I think Toya and Nivea are probably the coolest :)

HIP HOP Legend MC LYTE comments on Nicki Minaj and Lil Kim



Photo courtesy of SOHH



Veteran female rapper MC Lyte stopped by this year's "VH1 Divas Salute the Troops," where Young Money star Nicki Minaj rocked the stage over the weekend. VH1 asked Lyte to weigh in on hip-hop's newest starlet from a historical perspective.

"I look at her as a culmination of all of the female hip-hop MCs that are and were, with her spice all on top of it," Lyte said. "She's uniquely different for this time because she's totally equipped business-wise. She understands what it is to be different in your approach. I love it. When I listen to her I feel like I'm on a voyage, you never know exactly where she's going to end up."

When asked who Nicki may have used as an example in crafting her style, Lyte mentioned a certain Virginia native.
"When I think of style, I'd like to think of Missy because when I first heard Missy and all those little noises she would make, I'd be like, 'What the hell? Wow, I want to learn how to do that,' " Lyte said. "And now it feels like Nicki on steroids. She's thoroughly entertaining."

Of course, no hip-hop interview would be complete without the inevitable Nicki vs. Lil' Kim question but Lyte had a surprising response.

"I could easily say that it's unfortunate but I've had my dis wars and battles back in the days; I battled Antoinette," Lyte recalled. "I think, literally, the difference between us was I had a couple of records out before [Antoinette] and made a couple of fans before she did, that was the only thing that separated us in terms of who was going to win the battle.

"With regards to Nicki and Kim, right now, there's room for everyone," she continued. "Those who really need to be worried by Nicki's record is Fergie, Gwen Stefani, Nelly Furtado ... Nicki is coming out to win ... and she's not thinking of the block or the city so she's more able to handle what it takes right now to be an international star."

Lyte said that there's no real reason for the war of words between Kim and Nicki other than the competitive spirit.

"It's what an MC thrives on, and you cannot tell me that a female MC listening to them doesn't want to spit a verse themselves, because it's that competitive nature that hip-hop brings," Lyte smiled. "It's the art, people love to do it."

Hot damn, Ho here we go again!

#teamlilkim

Courtesy of MTV.com

Keri Hilson Says She Doesn't Date Rappers



Photo Courtesy of Essence Music Fest



Keri was on Chelsea Handler’s show  Hilson explained why she's not interested in becoming a hip-hop wifey.

"When you mix a man who has popularity, who has money, who has b****es, that's a scary thing for me," Keri told Chelsea. "It doesn't speak to my insecurities, it's just not the type of man that I want and I think I'm not the type of girl they want.  I have a brain, I'm a little more than they bargained for."

Okay Girl! Keri also went on to say that she doesnt have to be with a famous person either.

"[I want] someone who has an appreciation for what I do, but can also give me a bird’s eye view on my life," she explained. "I’ll do the same for him."

Watch the interview:

http://www.tvsquad.com/2010/12/09/keri-hilson-explains-why-she-wont-date-rappers-video/

Keri has also been under fire for her new “soft Porn-like video. You ne the judge! Check out the behind the scene footage of the video.



Photo Courtesy of SOHH



Shout out to Laurie Ann Gibson on her directorial debut

Baby + Me and Her =3?

Dear L,

I am in a lesbian relationship but I had got pregnant before I met her. We were friends for 5 months before we started dating. Now things are going really good. We're planning to live together after the baby is born. She is going to be a part of the baby's life.

The problem is that she lives in California and I live in Texas. We never met. I really do love her and she loves me. Is it too soon for us to make this commitment? Do you think it is too soon for me to give her a part of my life? Would it be better if I met her before I include her in the life of my unborn son, or should I let love take its course?

                                             Sheila

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Dear Sheila,

Uhhhh …. Honey…. Sweetheart….. (Pause)

Are you serious? Okay, Let me apologize. You are serious and that is why you emailed me. Sheila there is a lot going on in the world today and the internet has been known for sexual predators and people with hidden agendas. Now in all fairness I know people that have found love and bliss on the internet. However, you are about to become a new mother. Your first priority is to your child. Safety and protection being one of many things you must maintain at all cost. I just don’t believe bringing this woman into your personal space is a wise decision at this time. Living with someone is a major decision and has many challenges without a child and ther is a lot of adjusting and adapting that comes with living with someone. You really don’t know how this person interacts in a up close and personal environment.

I believe that you have missed out on one of the key elements of dating that is very crucial in all relationships. That key element is seeing how that person interacts with other people, including the most important person YOU! You don’t know this person’s habits, does she have a temper? Too often we see on television woman getting involved in relationships and leaving their kids with the mate and abuse has transpired against the child.

Consider discussing her relocating to Texas and finding her own residence. Maybe if you have a friend that needs a roommate and she can stay there. You can then begin to develop an up close and personal relationship and then grow into a relationship that has the two of you living in the same household.

Congrats on your blessing of joy and thanks  for reading L.O.L

The floor is open FAM BAM what do you think she should do?

1.       Let her move in?

2.       Don’t let her move in?

3.       Have

Don’t forget you can send your relationship questions to lifeoflakisha@gmail.com and don’t forget to follow me on twitter www.twitter.com/lifeoflakisha and unfortunately, I don’t do facebook aka the new Myspace lol

Smoochez!!!

So FN Confused!!!

PLEASE HELP NOW!!!

 I am 27 year old gay female and I met a girl online, and we got on immediately. I knew she had a boyfriend, so we kept it friendly at first. After a while, she started coming over for drinks etc. And we grew to really like each other. After a few weeks, she slept over a couple of times, and one thing led to another. She has told me many times that she wants to be with me, and she'll break up with her boyfriend when the time is right. Problem is, they live together, and if she breaks up with her boyfriend, she will have no proper income or place to live. I was fine with this, but recently I have just got really emotional about things, and I don't know what to do. I 100% want to pursue the relationship, but don't know where I stand!

So F-N Confused

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Dear So F-N Confused,

Let me try to make this short and simple and leave the floor open for the LOL Fam Bam to comment. Let’s talk about the fact that this girl has a man. So we don’t even know if she is gay forreal. You say if she leaves her man she has no source of income and you will most likely need to offer her assistance. With that being said it’s quite simple:

1.       If you like the girl that much and you feel it’s worth it and you got it like that (Cash Flow) then by all means make it happen.

2.       If you don’t got it like that (Cash Flow) then you need to strongly advise her to stay with her man under her circumstances because you are NOT in a position to offer any assistance with her transition.

Now let’s look at the fact that this woman was basically….(cough cough)  IS BASICALLY cheating on her man with you.

(SILENCE)

Unfortunately So F-N Confused I can’t tell you where you stand. I am sure that if you look deep inside you may not find the answer to where you stand with her  but you will find what you are worth. You are not Ms.So FN Confused or Ms. Right NOW…. You are deserve to be MRS. FOREVER . If you are available pursue a woman that is available. Why would you set your eyes on buying a house that is not for sale? When there are plenty of similar if not better houses that are already on the market?

Remember this:

If you have to question where you stand. You probably don’t have a leg to stand on-Lakisha

Don’t forget you can send your relationship questions to lifeoflakisha@gmail.com and don’t forget to follow me on twitter www.twitter.com/lifeoflakisha and unfortunately, I don’t do facebook aka the new Myspace lol

Smoochez!!!

To Call Or Not To Call... That is the question.

Dear LOL,

I am a 30 year old lesbian. My girlfriend and I recently celebrated our 1 year anniversary on Thanksgiving. A few weeks prior I found out she had been chatting with a female she met on facebook for about a month. She told me she deleted her as a friend, but I went through her phone I saw several text messages and calls on her phone. This means that they are still in contact with each other. When I confronted her about it she said that the girl keeps calling her but I don’t know if I completely believe that to be 100% true because I saw the text messages. I want to call the girl and get the truth and find out what is really going on. Should I call her or should I just leave it alone?

HELP!

#1 Spot

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Well #1spot I’m going to give you a lot to eat. Speaking from experience and the observation of friends that have dealt with similar "To call or Not To Call" Dilemma's I must say I have made several phone calls in my days and my reason was I always wanted the truth. However, when seeking the truth a lot of times it is within yourself. Consider this:

      1.       The other woman/jump-off/mistress could genuinely have an “understanding” with  your   girlfriend  which means she will probably say whatever she has been instructed to say. With that being said    you’re not going to get the truth, just a scripted statement.

2.       If the other woman/jump-off/mistress has been told that you are crazy and deranged. She has been most likely advised to not converse with you because an altercation may arise. And if she is scary lol she will not talk with you out of fear.

3.       If you make contact with the other woman/jump-off/mistress and she confirms whatever you have been thinking what are you going to do with that information? If you answer YES, Just leave the relationship now and don’t bother using your daytime minutes.

4.       If she denies being with your girlfriend…. Then what? Because you and your girlfriend are DEFINITELY about to get into it for so many reasons. (that’s another topic of discussion)

...and the most IMPORTANT  the other woman/jump-off/mistress MIGHT NOT EVEN KNOW YOU EXIST!

With that being said let me say this:

Let’s get past the bickering and arguing.  There comes a time in every woman’s life that she receives her “rites of passage” when she shows her ass one time. This might be yours. I first advise you to first re-evaluate your relationship with your girlfriend. Sometimes people make mistakes and get involved in things they shouldn’t and sometimes women are just ass holes. But only you know your woman and what she is capable of. Dig into that gut of yours and tap into your heart. The true answer is within you. NOT within this post. The one you really need to talk to is your girlfriend. Now, Let’s be clear I am NOT saying your girlfriend is or was right for her behavior. I just think that maybe there is a little more that needs to be discussed. Like, what were they talking about in the text and so on…  My phrase for the day: “SOMETIMES THE TRUTH CAN SOUND LIKE A LIE!” So talk with your girlfriend and honey your are not the #1 Spot. You should be the only SPOT!

Now if you want Pumpkin’s advice, call the #@!ch and teller:

1.        She a sideline Hoe!

2.       2^nd place doesn’t get a prize!

3.       If you mess with my girl imma be the one to bring it to you!

And after you do all that write me and tell me how that worked out for you.

Ladies we are so much better than all the drama and trust me… Been there done that! Everyone makes mistakes and remember sometimes the truth sounds like a lie! Only you know your girlfriend. No one can tell you what to do. You have to go with your heart. Pray and ask God to show you and He will. All the drama really isn’t worth it. So to answer your question should you call? Consider the possibilities, pray and follow peace! Cause regardless of the outcome... you have some relationship issues to deal with.

So Fam Bam what’s your advice to #1spot?

1.       Should she call the girl?

2.       Should she leave it alone?

3.       Should she settle the issue with her girlfriend?

4.       Should she just go find her a chick on the side? Lol

5.       Should she get her address and go see the girl face to face?

I’ve cooked.. The table is set… let’s eat!

Don’t forget you can send your relationship questions to lifeoflakisha@gmail.com and don’t forget to follow me on twitter www.twitter.com/lifeoflakisha and unfortunately, I don’t do facebook aka the new Myspace lol

Smoochez!!!

*****FOR ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY*******

Male: I don't understand this gay crap!

Change of plans!  From Me to you Tuesdays will return next week…and I can do that because I’m the boss!

I had a very interesting conversation with a guy today. He said, “I just don’t understand this gay crap” So I was ready, willing and able to explain. Due to the fact that I am a lesbian woman and NOT a gay man I will have to rely on my Male counterparts to help me explain their side. I must say this is only a small portion and we will continue this dialogue in the future.

It’s very simple gentlemen. Take a moment to think of everything that you love about a woman. The way she smells, her sex appeal, her strength, the way her hips sway as she walks, the virtue she hold and so much more. Well Fellas we lesbians love it too. The same attraction that you have for a woman. We have that too. For many of us lesbians we are not interested in you MALES. Not because we hate men, had a bad experience, or had some trauma in our life. It’s just because WE ARE lesbians. The best way I can describe the attraction that we do NOT have for you is this: When you see a man are you (heterosexual MALE) attracted to him. Do you looks at him and say,”Damn He fine! I’d like to get with that fine ass Man!” No, you look the other way with no interest. Well for us lesbians that is how we feel… We feel nothing. Now let me speak for myself. I can see an attractive man and say,” He is cute” but I’m GENUINELY not interested.

So with this being said let me end with this PSA:

Fellas when you see a lesbian couple out and you find one or both of them attractive. Please don’t assume WE…THEY want to hook up with you. When you approach one or both of them by saying “I’d like to get with you or your girl, she hot! What’s up?” Please consider this. If a man walked up to you and your woman and said to YOU “Damn my man, you lookin good in those jeans. Maybe we could hook up, I mean if your girl cool with it and all.” Or how about this how would you feel if some dude just propositioned your woman while you were standing right there? I think you would feel pretty disrespected. Right? Riiiight!

All I’m saying is I know there are a lot of woman who disrespect themselves and that goes for gay,lesbian, l or straight. However, as a lesbian I say this is not something I am going through .This is my life and I take it very seriously and I would…WE would like you to give us the same respect you would want Heterosexual male with your woman.

Breathe!

So what are your thoughts fam bam?

Don’t forget you can send me your email comments lifeoflakisha@gmail.com  or post below.

Don’t forget to follow me on twitter www.twitter.com/lifeoflakisha

Until tomorrow,

SMOOCHEZ!

Monday Meditation: LOVE THY HATER

What’s up FAM BAM!

Welcome to The Rebirth: Life Of Lakisha. It's MONDAY, the 1st day of the week and I find it only fitting to start you out on your week with some words of encouragement, inspiration and confirmation!

The phrase for the week: LOVE THY HATER

Matthew 5:43-46 (King James Version)

Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.

But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;

That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.

For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?

But... I like this translation better…..

Matthew 5:43-46 (The Message)

43-47"You're familiar with the old written law, 'Love your friend,' and its unwritten companion, 'Hate your enemy.' I'm challenging that. I'm telling you to love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer, for then you are working out of your true selves, your God-created selves. This is what God does. He gives his best—the sun to warm and the rain to nourish—to everyone, regardless: the good and bad, the nice and nasty. If all you do is love the lovable, do you expect a bonus? Anybody can do that. If you simply say hello to those who greet you, do you expect a medal? Any run-of-the-mill sinner does that.

So as you go about your day today…tomorrow and the rest of the week remember “LOVE THY HATERS!” Even the ones that talk about you on twitter and facebook. Even the ones that lie on you at your job. Even your sister… or brother… ex-girlfriend/boyfriend and YES, even your girlfriends/boyfriends ex! Let God be God and He will work out everything that is NOT working out for you!

Have a wonderful Monday! And don’t forget to send in your relationship questions for relationship Thursdays lifeoflakisha@gmail.com  and don’t forget to follow me on twitter www.twitter.com/lifeoflakisha

Until tomorrow….SMOOCHEZ!!!!

THE LAUNCH!

Introducing LIFE OF LAKISHA




Hey fam bam!
This is our weekly line up and it all kicks off at Midnight, Monday, December 6th

• Weekly meditation Monday
• From Me to You Tuesday- *Features My favorite upcoming artist, actors, Models, poets and more. Complete with Pics, Bios and sample work.
• Wild Wednesday
• Relationship Thursdays
• Freestlyle Fridays
*Send your relationship questions to lifeoflakisha@gmail.com .
**Send submissions to lifeoflakisha@gmail.com. All submissions become property of Life Of Lakisha and The Whole 9. All submissions must adhere to the following for consideration:
1. All pics must be jpeg
2. Simple bio ( we will make edits)
3. 2 songs only
4. Mp3 format only
5. (4 pics)Models
6. (2 pics) all others
7. Please list where you will be performing or where your work can be seen for the next 30 days
8. Twitter/facebook address
9. Booking info



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Smoochez!!!

THE NEW BLOG

Hey Fam Bam!
I know I haven't been feeding you lately. However I have been cooking you up some good food to eat. On Monday I will launch Life Of Lakisha. Hot topics and discussions that are relevant to the Lesbian community. Sex,Love,Life,Religion,Parenting,Dating,Coming out and so much more! Before we kick off our new season take a stroll down memory lane and view my archives a small piece of page of my life... ENTERTAINMENT REPORTING!!! There is so much in the making and I am excited about a major announcement I will be making at MIDNIGHT 2011. You will be a part of HERstory! don't forget to follow me on twitter. www.twitter.com/lifeoflakisha

What will our hot topic be for Monday... Well I will give you a hint: Its in the play list! t he he

Until Monday.... SMOOCHEZ!