Male: I don't understand this gay crap!

Change of plans!  From Me to you Tuesdays will return next week…and I can do that because I’m the boss!

I had a very interesting conversation with a guy today. He said, “I just don’t understand this gay crap” So I was ready, willing and able to explain. Due to the fact that I am a lesbian woman and NOT a gay man I will have to rely on my Male counterparts to help me explain their side. I must say this is only a small portion and we will continue this dialogue in the future.

It’s very simple gentlemen. Take a moment to think of everything that you love about a woman. The way she smells, her sex appeal, her strength, the way her hips sway as she walks, the virtue she hold and so much more. Well Fellas we lesbians love it too. The same attraction that you have for a woman. We have that too. For many of us lesbians we are not interested in you MALES. Not because we hate men, had a bad experience, or had some trauma in our life. It’s just because WE ARE lesbians. The best way I can describe the attraction that we do NOT have for you is this: When you see a man are you (heterosexual MALE) attracted to him. Do you looks at him and say,”Damn He fine! I’d like to get with that fine ass Man!” No, you look the other way with no interest. Well for us lesbians that is how we feel… We feel nothing. Now let me speak for myself. I can see an attractive man and say,” He is cute” but I’m GENUINELY not interested.

So with this being said let me end with this PSA:

Fellas when you see a lesbian couple out and you find one or both of them attractive. Please don’t assume WE…THEY want to hook up with you. When you approach one or both of them by saying “I’d like to get with you or your girl, she hot! What’s up?” Please consider this. If a man walked up to you and your woman and said to YOU “Damn my man, you lookin good in those jeans. Maybe we could hook up, I mean if your girl cool with it and all.” Or how about this how would you feel if some dude just propositioned your woman while you were standing right there? I think you would feel pretty disrespected. Right? Riiiight!

All I’m saying is I know there are a lot of woman who disrespect themselves and that goes for gay,lesbian, l or straight. However, as a lesbian I say this is not something I am going through .This is my life and I take it very seriously and I would…WE would like you to give us the same respect you would want Heterosexual male with your woman.

Breathe!

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