So FN Confused!!!

PLEASE HELP NOW!!!

 I am 27 year old gay female and I met a girl online, and we got on immediately. I knew she had a boyfriend, so we kept it friendly at first. After a while, she started coming over for drinks etc. And we grew to really like each other. After a few weeks, she slept over a couple of times, and one thing led to another. She has told me many times that she wants to be with me, and she'll break up with her boyfriend when the time is right. Problem is, they live together, and if she breaks up with her boyfriend, she will have no proper income or place to live. I was fine with this, but recently I have just got really emotional about things, and I don't know what to do. I 100% want to pursue the relationship, but don't know where I stand!

So F-N Confused

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Dear So F-N Confused,

Let me try to make this short and simple and leave the floor open for the LOL Fam Bam to comment. Let’s talk about the fact that this girl has a man. So we don’t even know if she is gay forreal. You say if she leaves her man she has no source of income and you will most likely need to offer her assistance. With that being said it’s quite simple:

1.       If you like the girl that much and you feel it’s worth it and you got it like that (Cash Flow) then by all means make it happen.

2.       If you don’t got it like that (Cash Flow) then you need to strongly advise her to stay with her man under her circumstances because you are NOT in a position to offer any assistance with her transition.

Now let’s look at the fact that this woman was basically….(cough cough)  IS BASICALLY cheating on her man with you.

(SILENCE)

Unfortunately So F-N Confused I can’t tell you where you stand. I am sure that if you look deep inside you may not find the answer to where you stand with her  but you will find what you are worth. You are not Ms.So FN Confused or Ms. Right NOW…. You are deserve to be MRS. FOREVER . If you are available pursue a woman that is available. Why would you set your eyes on buying a house that is not for sale? When there are plenty of similar if not better houses that are already on the market?

Remember this:

If you have to question where you stand. You probably don’t have a leg to stand on-Lakisha

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Smoochez!!!